As FewCloudy says, Headings are the way to sort it out!
Not sure what you mean regarding the BB outbounds and traffic via Hon?
Traffic via Hemel into BB/NX needs to be 220 lvl Hemel. Then Welin sector has to descent is 190 to keep it inside WELIN airspace, but keep it 170 or above to keep it out of BNN sector.
In general, a lot of traffic travels through sectors that it doesn't speak to. You just have to miss it if it goes through your sector.
cheers, C